Workshops

Pre-Institute Session

Engaging Emergence: Turning Upheaval Into Opportunity
August 2, 2012 – 1pm to 6pm
Facilitated by Peggy Holman and Johnnie Pratt
Open to conference attendees and interested community members, and free to all.

Facilitated Discussion Groups

Gender Odyssey generates in-house programming each year based on attendee feedback and word-on-the-street discussions in an effort to create sessions that are timely and relevant to our changing, growing communities.  Attendees are encouraged to contribute their personal experience and workshops are facilitated by valued community members.

Caucuses

Caucus space is designed specifically for people who share a common identity, issue, or circumstance to come together, talk, debrief, or simply hang out.  We ask that only those who feel they are personally aligned with the listed caucus topic access this space.  There will not be a facilitator so please keep in mind the discussion guidelines located at the beginning of your program book.

Town Meetings

Town Meetings are a place to share our personal experiences and know that they will be heard, and to listen to others with the intent to learn from — not judge – their experiences.  Bring concrete examples from your own life to add to a larger picture of the complex and challenging ways we individually and jointly construct our lives and our culture.  As we listen to others, we are likely to learn more of each other and expand our comprehension of the complicated ways in which we each maneuver through the world. In these discussions, we invite you to look at where you have power, where it is taken from you, and where you might unknowingly give it up.

2012 Conference Programming

Below are descriptions of the Workshops that will be presented at the 2012 Gender Odyssey conference. You can also view the full workshop schedule grid here.

Adventures in Dating
People of color (POC) can face many race- or ethnicity-based myths, stereotypes, or preconceptions that can complicate the dating process. When the complexity of a diverse gender identity or expression is factored in, the issue becomes that much more layered.  Join other trans people-of-color in this session exploring the world of dating and relationships.  Share your experiences – good, bad or confusing – and let’s get to the heart of the matter.  
Note: Open only to POC.  

Facilitated group discussion

Advocate for Trans-Inclusive Healthcare
It’s a matter of basic fairness that the health care given to non-transgender people on a daily basis be given to transgender people in need. Yet trans people the world over continue to struggle for their rights to even basic healthcare. Based on the successful model of Basic Rights Oregon, we will explore how individuals and groups can advocate for fully transition-related health care with employers, businesses, municipalities, and the legislature.

Presented by Joe LeBlanc, Sasha Buchert

Against the Ropes
Violence is a daily reality in our communities, where racism, sexism, classism, queer phobia and trans phobia manifest as bashings, sexual assault, partner abuse, and police brutality. Inspired by the skills and techniques of boxing, this workshop means to deconstruct the violence associated with boxing while emphasizing reconnecting with our bodies in a positive way. As our bodily experiences are often marginalized and victimized, this workshop seeks to teach participants offensive skills while escaping a victim blaming rhetoric that tells survivors not to fight back.

Presented by janaya khan, naty tremblay

Authenticity
How do you stay in your skin? What helps you be your truest self? How do you integrate your past with your present and still stay sane? What happens to you when you are your most authentic self? What happens to those around you? Let’s share our stories in a non-judgmental way – in a way that comes from our hearts.
Note: Open only to POC.  

Facilitated group discussion

Blood, Breath and Bones: Embodying Anti-Oppression
In response to a society that separates us from our truths, boxes us in, conquers, polarizes and categorizes from birth our very bodies – we learn to inhabit a linear world which divides and robs us of the vibrancy and diversity that is truly available. We’ll unlock the wisdom and histories we store in our organs, muscles, blood, breath and bones. Join us as we get out of our heads and into our hearts and bodies by using theatre, movement, energy work, discussion and story-telling.

Presented by Anna Soole

Bridging the Gender Divide: Organizing Between Trans Women and Trans Men
Are trans men from Alpha Centurion and trans women from the Eta Carinae Nebula? All too often our community acts like we are from different celestial bodies. Come to this workshop to gain insight into trans men’s and trans women’s community dynamics and to promote collaboration between our communities.

Presented by Tobi Hill-Meyer

Call to Action: The Adventure Begins!
Start your journey toward an action packed life! In this workshop we will discuss topics ranging from jockstraps, sports and packing on muscles to joyful activity and adventure for the less competitive. Open dialogues throughout the workshop will focus on positive, guiltless ways to stay on track with your goals. We have some fresh new ideas for initiating and making the changes you want to be coupled with Q&A, group discussion, and take-away resources. As an adjunct to this workshop we will also connect attendees together for friendly meet-ups outside of the conference hours including gym time, runs, walks, bocce ball, bowling – you name it!

Presented by Zach Black, Eli Gregory, Victor Van Epps, Cielo Acosta

Celebrating Femininity: Claiming Our Space
Most of the time it seems like trans women are simply tolerated — or become the exclusionary exception — in women’s communities and spaces. Trans women frequently have been asked to hold their tongue, to not take up space as if to compensate for previous years of perceived “male privilege.” In a world where masculinity is seen as both the pinnacle to strive for and also the expression of the oppressor, trans women are in a Catch-22 where their expression of either masculinity or femininity is suspect. There are rarely, if ever, spaces where trans women are not only accepted, but are encouraged and rewarded for being strong, empowered women – for being our diverse and beautiful selves. Trans women do take up space, trans women do have something to say, and our voices are worthy of celebration. This workshop is for trans women to collaborate with each other, discuss ways we can honor our diverse selves, and find ways to support each other within our various communities.
Note: We welcome our non-trans women allies as supportive listeners to this session focusing on trans women’s experience and voices.

Chest Reconstruction for FTMs
Surgeons and patients going forward with chest reconstruction have several diverse and complicated considerations. There are many procedures, many different bodies, and several different surgeries. Dr. Michael Brownstein will discuss the alternatives, their limitations, and possible complications, as well as recovery considerations in this workshop. Come with questions and concerns for the doctor.  There will be ample time for discussion.

Presented by Dr. Michael L. Brownstein

Chest Reconstruction: No Mysteries
Surgery is foreign and frightening to most individuals, but for trans people, surgery is often essential to achieve the body they feel is theirs. Chest reconstruction, or top surgery, is one of the most commonly requested procedures but for many it is mysterious and often confusing. Getting a best outcome requires a blending of the science of the body with the artistry of creating ideal results. In this session, Dr. Tony Mangubat will discuss the nuances of chest reconstruction and several different procedures that are common in the trans community and will emphasize what you need to do to get through any procedure from consultation to recovery.

Presented by Dr. Tony Mangubat

Class and Gender: Town Meeting
What are the parts of your class background or current class experience that don’t fit with each other?  Do you identify with a particular social class, or with several? Do others make classed assumptions about you that aren’t true? Do you find yourself hiding or editing parts of yourself because they don’t match others’ perceptions of who you are? Has your class identification changed as a result of your gender change?  Has it changed in the eyes of others?  In this town meeting, we will share our own stories and hear the stories of others about the ways we relate to issues of class.

Coming Out: Discussion for Transgender Young Adults
The question of when and how to tell friends and family (not to mention those at school, work, or in your neighborhood) that you are trans is a difficult one for anyone at any age. It can be especially difficult for young trans people. We may still rely on our families for housing or support and we’ve likely heard the stories of others who’ve lost this support because they disclosed their trans status. 

How do we navigate this issue?  Do we come out to one parent only?  Some friends, but not at work?  Do we tell everyone in a letter after the fact or invite them in to our day-by-day exploration? What are ways we can find support for ourselves?  How much can we expect from others and in what time frame? Come share your stories and hear the experiences of others as we seek to find the best path for ourselves as we navigate this difficult topic.
Note: Open only to trans-identified young adults.

Facilitated group discussion

Conflict Transformation: Compassionate Assertiveness
In this skills-based workshop you will walk away with powerful assertiveness and self defense skills. In a society that polarizes and assigns the most narrow ideas of gender and gender roles, and punishes those of us who cannot or will not conform to these rigid assignments, our gender and our personal assertiveness are intrinsically linked. In this workshop we will explore how we are socialized to “fight or flight”, and how that is frequently and vehemently linked to our assigned gender. We will explore boundaries, and how to navigate asserting ourselves while staying compassionate. Participants will walk away with powerful assertiveness, communication and self defense skills.

Presented by Anna Soole

Creative Expression and Self-Discovery
Reclaiming the unique strength and power in our bodies is a profoundly healing experience, and queer and trans people often have alienated, antagonistic relationships with our bodies. In this workshop, we will explore movement through structured exercises and nonverbal creative expression. This is an opportunity to link your mind and body and to direct that awareness towards meaningful interactions with others as well as yourself. Movers of all experiences, ages, and physical abilities are strongly encouraged to attend!

Presented by Joss Greene

Current Perspectives: MTF & FTM Gender Reassignment Surgery
As times change, so do the procedures and options for transgender surgeries.  Dr. Marci Bowers will discuss the current techniques for gender reassignment surgery. For trans women, Dr. Bowers offers information on one-stage vaginoplasty procedure, tracheal shaves and labiaplasty. For trans men, Dr. Bowers will present the current dilemmas in hysterectomies, metoidoplasty as well as ring metoidioplasty.

Presented by Dr. Marci Bowers

Cutting Edge Issues in Trans Rights
At the forefront of transgender activism are many topics. Here are just a few: access to appropriate identity documents, health care, continued employment and job programs, navigating sex segregated facilities, respectful treatment in jails and prisons. Hear from national advocates about what local, state, and national victories have been made, and about efforts that are underway throughout the country. Learn how you can take up these issues in your area, building on the success of others. Participants will leave with action items to bring trans rights into focus in their everyday lives.

Presented by Dru Levasseur, Kristina Wertz, Lisa Mottet

Exercise Your Rights
Major advances have been made on the local, state and federal levels with regard to non-discrimination protections, access to IDs, health care, parenting rights, and other important issues important to the transgender community. Join attorneys who will provide an overview of what rights exist and strategies for how trans people and their allies can take the law into their own hands.

Presented by Dru Levasseur, Kristina Wertz, Lisa Mottet

Families and Friends of Trans People: Caucus

Femme as Gender
Do you identify as femme when asked about your gender? Maybe “female” isn’t sufficient to describe you, but you find other labels (such as male, genderqueer, gender non-conformist, etc.) equally limiting? Let’s share our power as femmes with one another and discuss what makes “femme” our gender identification. We’ll find common ground, areas of glorious difference, and countless reasons to support and encourage each other as femmes!

Presented by Kristen Knapick

Finding Parenthood
Trans-identified Dads, Moms, Poppis, Mamas, Papas, and parents are invited to come together and speak about experiences nurturing our children.  What was it that terrified you the most about parenthood?  What surprised you?  How does your gender identity intersect with your parenting style?  Who are your parenting role models?  What challenges did you face in the building of your family?  In this participant-focused workshop, we will tackle these and other difficult questions to explore what it’s like to be a trans person and a parent. Soon to be and want to be parents are also warmly invited to bring their questions, thoughts, and experiences.  Additionally, this workshop is open to people of all genders.

Presented by Matt Goldenberg

Finding Voice: Feminization Laryngoplasty
Feminization Laryngoplasty (FemLar) is a type of vocal cord surgery designed to obtain a more feminine sounding voice in the male to female transgender patient. FemLar changes the pitch as well as some of the resonance characteristics of the speaking voice by changing the configuration of the vocal tract and not just the vocal cords themselves. We will use video and audio recordings of normal vocal cords, as well as recordings of patient voices undergoing the various procedures, to offer a better understanding of the voice.

Presented by Dr. James Thomas

First Nations/Native Americans: Caucus

Flourishing Beyond Shame
This workshop is for people who belong (or want to belong) to a spiritual/faith community. We will examine the influences of false shame upon gender, gender identity, and sexuality. False shame is when an outside source inappropriately places a “measure of value” on a certain action or identity. Conservative religious and secular factions utilize this “stigmatic guilt” as a tool of oppression against LGBTQ people. Participants will have opportunities to reflect on their personal understandings of how stigma and shame can affect us and be a hindrance to living a flourishing life.

Presented by Daniel Borysewicz

Fluidity of Gender
Are you a person of color whose gender identity falls outside the binary? Are you genderqueer, two-spirit or in some other way gender non-conforming? What sort of challenges do you encounter when your gender and your race or ethnicity intersect.  Do you find support or resistance from your friends?  Your family?  Your community(ies)? Join us for a revealing discussion where we can share our victories and trials related to navigating our cultural, racial and gender identities.
Note: Open only to POC.  

Facilitated group discussion

FTM GRS, Chest Surgery, Revision/Repair Surgery, Body Contouring
This two-part presentation discusses current surgical techniques, various procedures, risks, complications, and includes before/after photos with ample time for Q & A. Dr Meltzer is available for brief individual one-on-one visits during the conference. Call the office if you wish to schedule a one-on-one visit. Formal consultations need to be scheduled at our Scottsdale office at 866-876-6329.

Presented by Dr. Toby Meltzer

Fundraising for Transition
The cost of hormones and surgery for many people is simply out of reach. While some gains have been made in recent years, most health plans still do not cover any transgender related care, even if deemed medically necessary. As young people there can be even greater obstacles to affording transition.  But wait!  Your community, family, and friends are here for you!  But, you have to ask for this help. How do you do this?  Come to session to hear about ideas and skills-building for raising funds.  Confront your fears–you can do it!

Presented by Uma Rao

FUTURE OF TRANS YOUTH CARE – Keynote
In 2011, the Institute of Medicine outlined a tremendous gap in the state of research for LGBTQ individuals and especially research related to transgender populations. The lack of evidence-based trials with respect to transgender youth leads to skepticism and hesitancy on the part of medical providers to offer appropriate and timely care. This workshop focuses on the strides that have been made in the area of research, preliminary results from Dr. Olson’s research at Children’s Hospital Los Angeles, and the recommendations for moving transgender care forward through evidence-based, rigorous scientific trials.
Note: Open to both conferences!

Presented by Dr. Johanna Olson

Gay Male Partners: Caucus

Get it On: Sex and Intimacy for Partners
Have you been with your partner through transition and noticed shifts in your sexual connection or chemistry? Want to have great sex with your trans partner but feel awkward when the lights go out? How do you choose words to describe your sex and body parts?  Does the equipment you use for sex and play take on different meaning if your partner has transitioned? Do you wonder how to sustain sexual intimacy in the face of obstacles such as trauma and body shame?  Share your own experiences and questions in this confidential workshop. 
Note: Open only to non-trans-identified partners.

Facilitated group discussion

Good to Go: At Home (Enough) in Mainstream Male Environments
Major stress can arise when entering a mainstream male-oriented environment (job site, gym, hobby club, work crew, sports, bar, etc.). This facilitated discussion will focus on techniques and strategies for developing confidence, realistically and effectively, including the significance of self-awareness (body language, word usage and other subtle cues). Learning mainstream male social roles and expectations allows each of us to successfully gauge which ‘rules’ to safely break, and when…similar to what cisgender men also have to figure out. What barriers if any arise? How are people handling them? What are the results? What causes hesitation? What has helped to develop confidence? In short, what gets us “good to go”?

Presented by Lukas Walther, Julian Melson

Grief, Loss & Transformation
When our partner moves towards being their authentic self, many of us celebrate their transformation. However, sometimes our desire to be supportive can result in repressing our own emotions.  We may feel guilty for not always being the compassionate partner we “should” be. Our own feelings of grief and loss may be hard to articulate.  We may have trouble finding the support and understanding we need. In this closed, partners-only session, we’ll be able to make room for some of that grief, let some go, and find ways to support one another.
Note: This is open only for non-trans partners of people who are physically or socially transitioning, have transitioned, or are considering transition. You do not need to currently be in a relationship to attend.

Facilitated group discussion

Hormones 101
This workshop will offer basic information about hormone replacement therapy in the transitioning process. I don’t like shots…is there another method? Are there different side effects with the different delivery methods? How much will it cost? Why does my friend inject every seven days but my boyfriend injects every 14 days? These questions and more answered.

Presented by Dr. Carolyn Fuller

How Do You Measure Up?
This workshop is designed for transmen of color to share their experiences and discuss the sexual stereotypes on our journey through manhood. We will discuss our personal perception of self and how it affects our self-esteem, comfort with our bodies, and sexual intimacy. How do we measure up to cisgender men? We will discuss topics including sex, intimacy, dating and more. Learn and share tips on presenting and projecting the image that best represents who you are.
Note: Open only to transmen of color.

Facilitated group discussion

How to Dress the Part on a Budget
Clothing is seen as an extension of personality and sophistication, whether it is flamboyance with color and texture or a more conservative look. There are a few ways a gentleman can show his personality without sacrificing his debonair style…or his wallet. With some great shopping tips you can look great for less. Is your clothing budget tiny? Need suggestions on how to dress in a way that de-emphasizes feminine body structure? Learn where to buy clothes for the out-of-the average-size guys who are taller, larger, and shorter. There are solutions!

Presented by Jack Alcantara, Lyle Blake

How to Rock Being Trans* & Fabulous at University: Policy, Process, & Peeing!
Pissed off not having a place to pee? Ticked off you can’t get your trans*-related surgery covered by your insurance? Peeved that your professor doesn’t ask your pronoun or preferred name? Dorms are a downer because you can’t room with your BFF? Come join us for a presentation and discussion about how to affect policy change on your campus. We will use the University of Washington as a framework for this discussion and attendees will have an opportunity to ask questions and share information about their campuses.
Note: Open only to trans-identified young adults.
 
Presented by Jen Self, EG Sekins

Hung Jury: Testimonies of Genital Surgery by Transsexual Men
This workshop presents information from the new anthology Hung Jury. This long-awaited collection of stories shares the personal experiences of FTMs who have undergone various forms of genital surgery over the past six decades. This panel will talk about our motivations for writing the book and discuss how it debunks many myths and misinformation about genital surgery. We will read excerpts of contributor testimonies about trials/triumphs and show photographs of penises resulting from various kinds of surgeries. We will talk about current surgical options and the most recent medical advancements. Please come with questions as they share the powerful stories from this anthology.

Presented by Zander Keig, Trystan Cotten

I Just Need to Pee! (Eat, Sleep, See a Doctor…)
Society is comfortable with male and female; and being comfortable is often equated with feeling safe. Most, if not all, systems and institutions incorporate the binary notion of gender to try to add a level of safety. Examples include bathrooms, shelters, clinics, etc. But how can gender non-conforming people feel safe when these very institutions – knowingly or unknowingly – exclude us? How can we take care of our most basic human needs when our very existence is met with suspicion, contempt, fear, or ridicule? What can we do to change these spaces and what would that change look like, anyhow?
Note: Open to those who are genderqueer or gender nonconforming in identity or appearance.

Facilitated group discussion

Inside Out: Health and Nutrition for Transition and Beyond
This session is an informative trans-health workshop on nutrition for transition, surgery prep and recovery, greater vitality and sense of well being in the body, longevity, and quality of life.

Presented by Zach Black, Eli Gregory, Victor Van Epps, Cielo Acosta

Intersections of Abilities and Gender: Town Meeting
Have you ever felt that you were made invisible by the very visibility of your disability? Perhaps you’ve felt your disability’s lack of outward cues leaves you out in the cold. How does your disability affect how you experience your gender? Or how others acknowledge your gender identity?  In this town meeting, we will discuss how we embody gender in a society that often overlooks, ignores, and stigmatizes people with disabilities. This session is open to people of all genders with hidden or visible disabilities as well as their partners, friends, and allies.

It’s Just a Phase
When it comes to gender non-conforming people, we often hear “It’s just a phase.” Old assumptions insist that gender transitions move seamlessly from “point A” to “point B”. Genderfluid identities are dismissed as being temporary placeholders while we look for our “real” identities. Lately, the rediscovery of androgyny in popular culture has opened the door to accusations that gender-benders are just trying to be hip. Either way, we’re not taken seriously! The truth is, genderqueer, by whatever name we call it, is a legitimate and meaningful personal identity.    In this workshop, we’ll explore the multifaceted nature of gender and how our expressions of gender can change – even from day to day. How do you name, construct and express your genderqueering? Let’s find out!
Note: Open to those who are genderqueer or gender nonconforming in identity or appearance.

Facilitated group discussion

Jewish: Caucus

Leadership and Organizing: Town Meeting
If you have chosen a leadership role, what attracted you to lead?  Or, did leadership find you by default?  If you have been a leader or activist in your city/hometown, have you changed your point of view about leading as time passed?  What pitfalls or limitations have you found in how you’ve chosen to lead and/or organize?  What methods have been successful and lasting?  How do you prevent burnout?  Has your style of leadership conflicted with others in your community?  Have you received support from unexpected places?  Come share your experiences, listen to the successes and pitfalls of others, and let’s learn from each other.

Lost at Work? Navigating Your Employment Rights from the Application Stage through Termination
Can a prospective employer ask you questions about your gender identity?  What can you do if a coworker or supervisor harasses you at work?  What are your rights if an employer terminates you because of your gender identity?  The law provides various levels of protection for gender non-conforming and transgender job applicants and employees.  Come to this workshop to learn your employment rights from the application stage through termination.  Through a facilitated discussion, we will also discuss practical approaches for responding to workplace harassment and employment discrimination.
Note: Open only to trans-identified teens and young adults.

Presented by Angie Perone

Making Sex Education Inclusive
Think back to the sex education you may have received in middle or high school.  Did you get any sex education at all? Was it really comprehensive? For most, it surely it didn’t have a queer focus. This workshop does! You will acquire hands-on practice learning and teaching anatomy and STI transmission utilizing language and models that includes rather than excludes.

Presented by Darcy Allder, Jesus Verduzco

Navigating Families in Communities of Color
In many ethnic minority communities, our families are an important source of strength. Perhaps we always knew they would love and support us no matter what…until we began to consider transition. We may feel we have to move away from home, family, and friends, or wait for a parent to die, before exploring or beginning a transition. Is the risk of losing family and community too high of a price for the pursuit of our personal authenticity?  How do our race, our communities, and our families affect the choices we make regarding gender?
Note: Open only to POC.  

Facilitated group discussion

Never Too Late: Rites of Passage
Cultures across time and geography have utilized rites of passage and clearly defined symbols to accompany change and transition. Rites of passage provide a movement from letting go of a past self to embracing a new identity.  This is crucial for those going through gender transition as well as for their loved ones. Because a gender transition affects everyone in an individual’s network, family, friends, partners and others are encouraged to come together to acknowledge this movement. In this workshop we will explore the power and necessity of symbol and ritual, share our personal experiences, and offer ways to create meaningful personalized rituals. It is never too late to ritualize your passage.

Presented by Jordan Decker, Marcia McFee

No Apology Necessary: Celebrating Masculinity
Trans men are often perceived as having crossed a line once they are fully recognized as male. Many of us living as male for several years experience unjustifiable targeting for being the embodiment of patriarchal culture. This shows up in accusations of misogyny, in demands that we become the model man, apologize for our masculinity, or deny any claim to manhood at all. How do we come to terms with our own maleness in light of feminist messages that men are the enemy? What happens when we seek to empower ourselves as whole human beings and are judged as trading oppression for privilege? How easy is it, really, to be a man in this culture? Having overcome many hurdles to live authentic lives, often at great personal expense, how do we deal with being criticized and objectified yet again?  
Note:  Open only to trans men who are fully routinely read as male and masculine.

Facilitated by Zander Keig, Lukas Walther

Non-Binary Transition: Exploring the Options
So you’re genderqueer/non-binary, but you’re tired of talking – you want to do something about it. Yet transition is still a murky topic. Which bathroom or pronoun do I use? What do I have to do get hormones? Is surgery in my future? What about a name change? Whether you’re outside, in the middle, or on the edge of the gender binary, these questions can be challenging to answer.  Amidst the din of the proscribed gender transition path, find the right path for YOU!  Join this discussion, share your journey and hear from others as we strive for authenticity.  

Presented by Mich R.

Open Twelve Step Meeting
This is an open meeting for all conference attendees currently working a twelve-step program. Meet with others to find support and make connections for the conference weekend.  In addition to this session, we’d like to encourage you proactively set times and places for any additional meetings desired throughout the conference weekend.  

Package Nobody Wants
Dr. Linda Gromko tells her trans clients, “I don’t want to see you through a fabulous transition, only to lose you to a ‘technicality’, a preventable illness.” Don’t let your transition stop with hormone treatments.  Stay focused on health over a lifetime. This presentation focuses on Metabolic Syndrome, a “package” defined as high blood pressure, abnormal cholesterol, obesity, and insulin resistance – the propensity to develop diabetes. Heart disease, stroke, and kidney failure can follow close behind. Folks whose body constitution tends to be shorter and overweight may want to learn about how these factors may predispose them to Metabolic Syndrome.  Dr. Gromko dealt with the consequences of Metabolic Syndrome in her husband. When he developed diabetic kidney failure, she performed his home dialysis for over three years before his premature death in 2011. He was devoted to the transgender community and wanted his legacy to be one of health promotion. Dr. Gromko uses his example to help others tune up their health while they still can.

Presented by Dr. Linda Gromko

Passing Privilege and Transmisogyny in Our Lives
Many folks have an understanding on what privilege is but as trans-men sometimes we don’t realize the privilege we get when we pass and how often we can leave our trans-sisters behind. In this workshop we will discuss what passing privilege looks like and how we can perpetuate misogyny in our own communities, as well as hopefully leave with some concrete tools on how to combat it.

Presented by Sammy Harvell

POC Opening Reception
Welcome to Gender Odyssey’s exclusive programming track for trans and gender variant people of color! Get the weekend started off just right by getting to know each other in a cozy, comfortable environment. Come for coffee, pastries, and beverages to find out what’s up for the weekend. Our reception will lead into a caucus for all trans and gender variant people of color who attend Gender Odyssey. It will provide a chance for us all to meet each other, network, and begin to share our stories and our work with each other.  What drew you here and what are you hoping to find? What do our communities need?
Note: Open only to POC.

Queer Tango: An Introduction
In our increasingly virtual world, we make many virtual connections yet we still need touch. Tango is connection through touch. The dance is communicated tactilely. This interactive workshop will introduce you to the wonderful world of close-embrace tango. It will get everyone up and dancing. You’ll have the opportunity to hug and move with each other in a welcoming, playful, and respectful environment. Curious about queering tango? Interested in the healing touch available through tango? Come tango!

Presented by Lyle Blake, Carol Ann Aldrich, Max Kepler, Davis Reed

Race-Gender Balancing Act
A gender transition can result in new experiences of privilege – both lost and gained – but that experience may be no where near the same for trans people of color as it is for white trans people. Has your relationship to race transitioned along with your gender? What was expected and what has taken you by surprise? How does acquiring male privilege balance with the losses that come with living as trans? Or, have you transitioned to female and discovered a far less friendly world?  More friendly? Come share your experience and hear the stories of others as we explore the inextricable relationship between our gender and skin color.
Note: Open to all.

Facilitated group discussion

Results of the National Transgender Discrimination Survey
Join co-authors of the National Transgender Discrimination Survey to hear about the largest survey of transgender people ever done. Study results cover discrimination in employment, housing, ID documents, health care, and family. A major finding is the intertwined effect of racism leading to especially difficult outcomes for transgender people of color. Learn how this data is already being used by government agencies and how to use this data in your education and advocacy efforts.

Presented by Justin Tanis, Lisa Mottet

Rules of Attraction
Homosexual, heterosexual, bisexual, … transsexual?  There is no word for people who are specifically attracted to trans people.  For trans people, how does this affect our ability to feel sexy and desirable?  How do we know if someone’s attraction to us is based on a gender fetish?  Do we ourselves fetishize non-trans bodies?  For non-trans people, are our motives questioned when we prefer to date trans people?  How do we deal with language that assumes we’d rather date non-trans people?  Join us for an in-depth discussion of navigating dating, sex, and intimacy with bodies that aren’t recognized by the current language of sexual orientation.  Let’s talk about getting confident in our own sexiness, and making room for trans-specific desire.
Note: This workshop is open to all.

Facilitated group discussion

Science, Gender Identity, and Legitimacy
The relationship between scientific research, medicine, culture, and gender identity is complex. Many look to science to validate a non-conforming gender identity or non-heterosexual orientation. Why give science the power to legitimize who you know yourself to be? In this workshop, we will examine recent research on gender identity, its assumptions and limitations, how results are interpreted and how this information is used and abused. We will end with a discussion of new approaches, new interpretations, and a presentation of new data, some of which was collected at Gender Odyssey in previous years.

Presented by Dr. Rachel Levin

Serve Your Country: Trans People in the Military and Government
What does it mean to be trans and serve in the military? Can you work for the government and be out as trans? In this workshop we will discuss what the repeal of the “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” policy means for the trans community, talk about the state of trans equality within the federal government and military, and provide insight into being a transgender employee of the Department of Defense. Specifically aimed at members of our community who are or have been in the military or work for the federal government, or for those with partners and family members who are, come with your questions and have a discussion about current issues related to this topic.

Presented by Kaiden Montana, Lisa Kove

Seven Year Itch
Many years have passed since you physically transitioned, and the impact it had on job, family, relationship, medical issues, and the like has faded a bit into the past. What’s going on in your world now?  Your gender may no longer be an issue in most of your personal relationships, but where does it pop up? Are you back in the dating pool with no idea how to begin? Re-entering school, and the financial aid administrator wants to know why you aren’t registered for selective service? Are you living stealth, or out?  Where do you disclose your gender, and where do you find it to be irrelevant?  
Note:  The focus of this workshop is on people who are five or more years post-transition. All are welcome to listen, but we ask that you respect the intent to create a focused conversation relevant to this particular subset of trans community.

Facilitated group discussion

Seven Year Itch – Partners
Many years have passed since your loved one physically transitioned, and the impact it had on your immediate family, relationship, and the like has faded a bit. Your loved one’s gender – and your relationship to them – may no longer be a day-to-day issue. But, where else does it pop up? Are you finding ways to be proud of your loved one’s gender while still claiming your own unique identity? Has a health issue come up that again puts you or your loved one out on the front lines of defending gender? How are you affected now by your loved one’s choice to live stealth or out? This workshop focuses on the experiences of those who’ve had five or more years beyond their loved one’s transition.

Presented by Kristen Knapick

Sex & Intimacy
Many of us may have issues that diminish our capacity for sexual intimacy. Occasionally, we’ll talk about some of these privately or, on rare occasions, publicly. Often they remain our secrets, hidden even from our partners. Do our challenges with intimacy come with the territory of being transgender? As we define or re-define our gender identity, we may find this has major implications for our sex lives. In what ways have you redefined your own sexuality? Is the image of your physical body incongruent with your conceptual body image? Do you have adverse sexual experiences from my past that hinder your present day ability to be intimate in the way you desire? If you have made physical changes, how do you feel about your new body? What do you celebrate?  What do you mourn?  And what the heck do you call the bits now?
Note: This workshop will provide a confidential space for trans-identified people to talk frankly about fears, challenges, pleasures, and desire. Things that are the most personal are also the most universal.  

Facilitated by Carson Rader, Aydin Kennedy

Sex Positivity in the Transgender Community
Let’s create a sex positive culture in the transgendered community! Learn what sex positivity is and how to create it. A panel of sex positive transgendered people and partners of transgendered folks create an informative discussion about sex positivity and how we can overcome the negativity and shame our society has put on sexuality. We are sexual beings and should not be ashamed of that fact.

Presented by Mac MacGregor, Allena Gabosch

Sexual Empowerment: Art & Smut
Too often trans people are made to feel shame and guilt around our sexuality. At this workshop you will learn about some community projects around sexual empowerment and receive practical instruction in writing, zine making, and film/porn to create your own sexual empowerment projects through creative expression.

Presented by Tobi Hill-Meyer

Shifting Identities, Expanding Desires
Whether our partners are post-transition, just beginning to question their gender, or negotiating an identity somewhere in the middle, their journeys can have major implications for our feelings about sex and attraction.  Were you involved primarily with women and never expected to be having sex with someone trans or male-identified?  How do you feel about your partner’s body-including new smell, look, or changing parts? Is being with your partner opening you to new sexual desires? Are your ideas about your sexual orientation shifting?  Depending on numbers, there may be break-out groups for lesbian-identified, bi/queer identified, straight and gay male partners.  This workshop will provide a confidential space for non-trans-identified people to talk frankly about fears, challenges, pleasures, and desire.
Note: Open only to non-trans-identified partners.

Facilitated group discussion

Size and Gender: Town Meeting
Our culture is still unkind to fat people and fat people are often reduced to just that: fat. If we have (or have had) fat bodies, we know that many view our size simply as manifestation of a weak will or a supposed “moral failing,” allowing us to be publicly humiliated and dehumanized in society and our media culture. How does this impact how we date, love, and live? Has your body changed as a result of a gender transition and, if so, how do you feel about it now? What different societal messages have you encountered?  In what ways do factors such as our age, skin color, or class complicate our relationship to our size? Join us for a town meeting on the intersections of size and gender.

Stepping Up: Caring for Our Partners and Allies During Transition
There is much discussion on how to best support someone through a gender transition and often very little discussion addressing the ways we can support and nurture our partners and other loved ones while we transition. A gender transition can be overwhelming and liberating, but the resulting tunnel-vision can be extremely difficult on those around us. In this workshop, we will discuss ways of giving back to our partners, families, and friends so that we may be pro-active in preserving our relationships through these challenging times. We will also identify some of the common (or not so common) experiences of our allies, as it pertains to transition.  Finally, through small group discussions, we will learn ways to nurture the people around us as we change.  This workshop is open to all.  

Facilitated group discussion

Surgical Refinement for the Transfeminine Face
The face is an important physical cue in one’s gender presentation. While hormones can soften facial features to a certain extent, there are surgical options available to enhance a feminine presentation. Taking advantage of a patient’s facial assets allows them to retain a sense of self while femininity is enhanced. Dr. Beck understands that each individual has different aesthetic desires and is able to work with patients to develop a personalized individual surgical plan that fits their lifestyle.

Presented by Dr. Joel Beck

This Is Your Brain On Hormones
For those people who identify with a gender other than the one they were assigned at birth, there may be a disconnect between the way their brain behaves and the way they feel. Recently it has been demonstrated that taking cross-sex hormones causes substantial changes in brain structures over a very short period of time. Sometimes these brain changes are welcomed as they become more closely aligned with the person’s gender identity. However, sometimes these changes can cause people to experience the worsening of conditions that had previously been entirely manageable. This workshop will provide information about these brain changes and their impact on behavior and encourage discussion about how to engage in self-care, and if necessary, get the right kind of help. We will also foster discussion about how to manage those inner changes while simultaneously developing the coping skills needed to deal with a very different brain.

Presented by Dr. Melady Preece, Kade Markson

TRANS is an extraordinary documentary feature about men and women, girls and boys…and all the variations in between. It is about the Transgender Community, perhaps the most misunderstood and mistreated minority in America and around the world. Inspired by the incredible story of Dr. Christine McGinn and her important work as a transgender surgeon, TRANS provides an up-close and very personal vision into the lives, loves, and challenges of a remarkable cast of characters of all ages and from all walks of life. These are the stories of confusion and courage, excitement and emotion that have never been told . . . until now. To anyone who ever looked in a mirror and wondered “Who am I really?”, TRANS asks another question—“Are you brave enough to find out?”
NOTE:  This movie has some thematic elements that are not appropriate for young children.  It includes an upsetting scene and is not recommended for children under the age of 13.  

Mark Schoen, producer; Chris Arnold, director/editor

Trans People in the Second Half of Life
If you remember what rap groups are, this group is probably for you. This is an opportunity to talk with others of our age group about the things we feel are unique to older transgender people. We will arrange chairs in a circle and after a brief introduction the floor will be open to all.

Presented by Steve Toby

Trans-on-Trans Relationships
This workshop is for transgender or genderqueer people and their trans/GQ partners. Join us in examining relationship issues related to transitioning and how we deal with them when there is a lot of gender going on! What are the unique issues relevant to our relationships? What happens when partners take different paths regarding hormones and/or surgery? How do you avoid comparisons or feelings of competitiveness? What happens when both partners transition? Navigating gender and relationship issues when a partner’s experience mirrors one’s own, and yet doesn’t, can be quite an adventure. Let’s talk!

Presented by Mitchel Cole Dubin-Bresnikar and Jonas David Dubin-Bresnikar

Transgender Education Distinctions: Youth vs Adult
When we advocate for a trans person or educate a group about trans issues, it’s important to consider all the factors for the individuals involved. Many times we consider race and class and what sort of group it is, but sometimes we don’t consider the specific distinctions in age. What is appropriate and correct for an adult trans person, will not be the same for a younger trans person. This workshop investigates many of the distinctions between what works in gender education for young vs adult populations.

Presented by Kim Pearson, Lisa C. Gilinger

Transgender Safe Space Training
Many LGBT safe space trainings have neither the focus nor the experience to present trans issues for safety and inclusion. This workshop will provide tools that allies need to deconstruct this pattern, as well as provide support that trans people need in these spaces.  Our aim is to ensure that the diversity within the trans community is supported. These tools range from familiarization with terminology, options for pronoun use, and sensitive-situations practice. Whether new to transgender topics or mildly seasoned, there is time for allies to discuss, discover, and improve skills. Transgender advocates (both trans and cis allies) are welcome to attend.

Presented by Chris Burns

Transitioning 101: Ask the Doc
Why are labs needed for hormone replacement therapy? Why is a letter from a therapist required? What can I expect to happen once I start hormones? Can I take more hormones so I can transition quicker? Do I have to get up to the maximum dose of hormones? These questions and more are answered by a family practice doctor who specializes in GLBTQ healthcare in a detailed step-by-step of the medical transition process.

Presented by Dr. Carolyn Fuller

Transitioning Into a Short Man
What is the experience of being a short man in society? The nature of height oppression is insidious and this workshop is meant to identify and articulate the forms this oppression takes, how it is propagated through language, individual interactions, and pressure to conform to, or resist stereotypes of short men in society. We will actively seek opportunities and strategies to empower short men. Including the voices of several different trans and cisgender men, straight and queer, we will engage in a dialogue on how height oppression has affected each of them throughout their lives.

Presented by Sam Davis

Transwomen: Caucus

Under the Radar: Unpacking Stealth
Where are you out about your gender identity or history? How do you draw the lines about whom you’ll tell? When and how much? How does this impact your life, your relationships? Does it provide relief? Stress? Both? This workshop will investigate the complex topic of living stealth. Many times we consider stealth to be all-or-nothing, but there are many questions to ponder when considering disclosure. We’ll discuss why we live stealth, the ways in which we do it, how it plays out, and how we can empower each other in our own personal choices.

Facilitated group discussion

Ups & Downs of Phalloplasty
For many transsexual men, the decision to pursue phalloplasty or metoidioplasty is often imfluenced by negative messages from both community and media.  Inhibiting an open dialogue, this messaging can lead many transmen to assume that there are no viable genital reconstruction options. Going beyond the aesthetic and functional aspects of the surgery, we will be discussing the emotional, mental and physiological reactions and responses associated with undergoing such a life changing process.

Presented by Zander Keig, Trystan Cotten

Wellness & Aging
Back by popular demand, a wellness workshop for the middle age and older transperson. Information will be provided regarding the need for tranfolks to engage in physical activity/exercise as we age. Exercise recommendations for general fitness, increasing bone density, and managing arthritis will be given. This topic is for both transmen and transwomen.

Presented by Michael Huffington

What’s the Rush?
How can I transition now that I’m 65?  I love living in the middle of gender, why can’t people be okay with me  just being the way I am?  My family will NOT accept this—it’s completely outside of our culture and how can I risk losing them?  I don’t think my education or career will survive a gender transition.  If you have these or other thoughts about a physical transition, come share them in a supportive and non-judgmental environment.  This is a panel discussion dealing with the imperfect process and experience of a physical transition.  All the panelists have experienced second thoughts, or have re-transitioned, or have transitioned for reasons other than “traditional” reasons.  We’ll think outside the box of “Should I… or Shouldn’t I…”? 

Facilitated by Carson Rader

What’s Up With Intersex?
Within pop culture, the media, and gender studies, both transgenderism and intersex have become the cause celebre. Despite this new found interest, many people have little understanding or have misconstrued ideas about transgenderism and intersex, sometimes confusing one for the other. This session will briefly discuss the history of the intersex movement and help participants better understand the needs of intersexed people. We will spend some time deepening the understanding of the institutional similarities and differences between transgender and intersex people.

Presented by Jane Goto

Why Informed Consent Matters
Have you experienced that the choices about your own body are at the mercy of your doctor or therapist? Trans people are often at a loss of power or support to make medical decisions about their bodies, beholden to mental health and medical providers as gatekeepers to when and how to access hormones and surgery. The Informed Consent model takes the power out of the hands of medical professionals and redistributes it, keeping at the core the personal needs and desires of the transgender patient. Come discuss what Informed Consent is and how to use policy to shift the power of self-actualizing into the hands of trans people and out of the hands of medical providers.

Presented by Canelli, Calvin Burnap

You’re Doing What?! 
What do you say when your daughter says she’s really your son, or your sister says she’s really your brother? Or any other mind-bending “switch” for that matter? For many of us, understanding gender identity and our loved one’s decision to transition is uncharted territory. The “whys” we have in our heads can be scary and overwhelming. We sometimes make desperate attempts to understand the complexities of their new gender identity. In this workshop, we will share our feelings, listen to each other’s experiences, and ask questions in a comfortable, confidential environment. As we grapple with our feelings regarding our transgender family member, we are free to share feelings, concerns, and experiences regarding the “transition” that are necessary to help us come to terms with our family member’s choices regarding gender identity.
Note: This is a closed, facilitated discussion for non-trans family and friends who would like help and support in a confidential environment.

Presented by Brenda Bowers, Jeri Starrett